It’s the Memory of You I Can’t Forget
When you lose someone you love, you are fragile, and need time to reflect, and re-live those memories. If you have a good friend who will experience the loss with you, the healing stage can be less...
View ArticleYour Word Means Everything
Every human I know has made at least one promise they didn’t keep. Hopefully, it’s only one or two. If this is a consistent pattern for you, it’s time to work on this. If you destroy someone’s ability...
View ArticleThe Pain of Your Child Talking Divorce
Having kids means learning to let go, watch them grow, and yet somehow be the net underneath them when they fall. For many of our kids, failing at a marriage is a fall. Let them know…home is always...
View ArticleFake friends aren’t friends but do smile
In order to become the best version of ourselves, we need to set goals. Real friends support our goals and want the best for us. If you set a goal and notice others trying to dissuade you or make you...
View ArticleThe Consequences of having it All
I don’t think the question is, “Can women have it all?” I think the question is, “Will I know it and appreciate it when I have it all?” There is a consequence for every behavior, and weighing the cost...
View ArticleMarried or Dating a Passionless Partner
Couples who are committed to one another and want to continue to grow their love must stay curious and interested in something other than the TV, the computer or iPhone. One of the easiest ways to...
View ArticleExing an Ex
The number one rule is to take care of yourself after a breakup, whether you were the one broken up with or the one doing the breaking up. Taking the extra time you now have, and exploring ways you...
View ArticleBad Sex Isn’t Contagious, But It Can Infect a Marriage
Bad sex can infect a marriage, but only lack of intimacy can kill it. Bad sex happens, sometimes during prolonged illness, arguments, and other challenges we all face in our marriage. If you can touch,...
View ArticleFive solutions to being too pooped for a relationship
With the advancement of technology, there is never a time we cannot work. This makes it imperative that couples reserve time for themselves and their relationship. All relationships require time, and...
View Article7- Year Itch doesn’t have to lead to twelfth year divorce
Experiencing the seven-year itch is not a bad thing, but ignoring it, trying to sweep it under the rug, instead of dealing with it means your marriage has a greater chance of succumbing to the itch....
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